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Getting engaged is pretty scary – especially if you are the one proposing. A lot of thought and effort goes into a marriage proposal. It is also a tedious process – from the uncertainty of being rejected to the pressure of choosing the perfect ring for your bride-to-be. In essence, you fervently hope that the person you are proposing to responds with that highly anticipated, “Yes!”.

To be frank, finding your ‘other half’ is not as simple as you would like it to be. Normally, it would take a while for some people to realize that their partner is the one. One may even ponder as to how they would know that they are with the right person. Truth is, not everyone instinctively knows who they want to marry. Often, it is a series of steps and decision-making. Several obstacles may get in the way before achieving this important relationship milestone. 

Life is funny sometimes. Ironically, you meet the right person when you stop searching and when you least expect it. 

Once you come across someone special, eventually you would know that she is the one you want to spend your whole life with. Maybe, soulmates do in fact exist. In other words, you have finally come to your senses. You are ready to get hitched. Still, you may be at a loss as to how exactly you prep to ask for her hand in marriage. 

Not to worry, here are some things to take note of:

Choosing the Engagement Ring

Rings symbolize a lot of things. Bear in mind that rings could be part of a fashion ensemble and a status symbol as well. To add on, it would be a timeless accessory so it truly is a valuable investment. Engagement rings must be all of those things. The engagement ring you choose for your soon-to-be fiancé holds a great significance to the whole matrimonial tradition. After years of being together, she is most likely waiting eagerly for you to get down on one knee. She probably has her dream wedding planned out from when she was younger. Imagine how happy she would feel if you can make that dream a reality – starting with the engagement ring.

As the song and phrase goes, “Diamonds are a girl's best friend” – so, give her a diamond ring. Better yet, not just any ordinary store-bought diamond ring. Making her feel like the most special girl in the world is vital. Custom engagement rings are the best way to show her that she deserves a ring unlike any other. Getting her a one of a kind diamond engagement ring is certain to make her feel like royalty. Ultimately, it is one of the many ways to show your everlasting love and lifelong commitment to your partner.

The Right Time and Place

By this time, you should already have spoken with your partner about marriage at some point of the relationship so that it does not come as a huge shock when you pop the question. If you mutually agreed that marriage is something you both want, then take it as your cue to propose.

This may seem like a no-brainer but one would be surprised as to how many men have made the mistake of doing a public proposal. As much as it was done with sweet intentions, one wonders if her response is genuine because there is an audience around to witness the proposal. Prior to making plans, try to figure out if she would be comfortable with getting proposed to in public. Some women prefer to have a more private wedding proposal as opposed to a grand gesture. If she is more reserved, opt for a cozy dinner in the comfort of your home instead of throwing an engagement party. I suggest that you prepare a nice meal for two and perhaps pair it with some wine (or any beverage of her choice). When the time feels right, gently pop the question.

Adding on, do not make the rookie mistake of proposing at someone else’s wedding (unless of course, you have the wedded pair’s blessing to do so). Let the bride and groom have their moment. You will have yours eventually. From my perspective, it seems a little bit rude and disrespectful to propose to your significant other at this particular event. Your beau will definitely appreciate it more if you propose to a place which is special and personal to the both of you.

Summary

You know what her heart desires. It is normal to feel nervous when the time comes. Nonetheless, just be yourself. If she truly loves you and you are meant for each other, things will be okay. Even if the proposal did not turn out as perfect as you planned, it would not matter to her. In the end, what matters is the love you have for each other.